The female life trials in a relationship with a Dismissive Avoidant. 09:45. Wednesday morning. I decided to ask the question that I have learned had attached to it a level of potentially contentious complexity that would make those studying the Art of War to consider overly tactical. As per the…

Lunch with PV Nov 5, 2022 The blessings that come from those poignant offerings given to you by dear friends need to be truly celebrated, no matter how small the statement. I hadn’t seen PV in about 4 years. You could see the density of those years on our faces…

What plays out when two avoidant types come together and what are the key takeaways to keep in mind if you are part of this dynamic little club? I met R. in the best way. Myself, sitting 3 or so seats away from him at the local small town watering…

She had never shown up prior to those two marquis events which created her marshmallow-y, softly toned self. In fact, I never knew she was there until I transcribed the words for the November 5, 2010 journal entry to be added for a book: November 5, 2010 Mom had told…

I say nope to both of the articles, ‘An Open Letter to The Guy At The Grocery Store’, and its subsequent response ‘An Open Letter To Single Women From a Middle-Aged Man’. Society has to lay off the restrictions and let the dopamine-driven feel of spontaneity stretch its cramped legs. …

‘Shut up. What’s your name’ ‘I just told you’ ‘You’re going against a health regulation’ ‘What’s his name?’ ‘What’s his name?’ (inaudible) Police: ‘it’s not a gun, it’s a tazer and I have the authority to use force to capture (sic) the arrest’ ‘You are under arrest.’ ‘Why are you…

Right away. I used to love the idea of the analogy of the that Phoenix which Mr. Hughes puts forward in his article How to Let Go of an Old Life. The problem is that the lovely utopia of being expunged of the destroyed prior work choice isn’t a feel friendly movie like we crave it to be. I’ll explain. Years ago, I was brought forward to take a leadership course for progression through the ranks at that job. One of…

My daughter sits at the kitchen island, already fidgeting. We’re on our second week of Covid induced home learning (calling it home schooling would indicate that I actually was prepared for this). We’re working on her math. …

Do you find yourself moving across differing career paths? I did. Trying to explain my new career moves prompted the research into my organic shifts from one seemingly unrelated career path to another. I stumbled onto the term Multipotentialite. Initially I found it on the site Puttylike. The words in…