I agree with Paul Watkins on this. Every person in a relationship gets the joy of having an eye rolling type of frustrating situation where you evaluate in yourself the value of the relationship vs. the short term frustration. Human interaction and involvement will always involve some sort of frustration that comes with the synergy of what two people develop together. If that is a deal breaker, I kinda feel that you should stick to how hot you are as you mention and enjoy the short game. Nothing wrong with that!