Open Letter to Single Men and Single Women — Another Perspective

8 min readOct 10, 2021
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I say nope to both of the articles, ‘An Open Letter to The Guy At The Grocery Store’, and its subsequent response ‘An Open Letter To Single Women From a Middle-Aged Man’.

Society has to lay off the restrictions and let the dopamine-driven feel of spontaneity stretch its cramped legs.

Ladies and Fellahs..while I’m appreciative of the insight brought forward by Ms. Misty Rae and Mr. Adebayo Adeniran (I can use Mr. and Ms. as I’m thinking as the articles referred to here are directed at those of the opposite sex), I find it interesting the limitations they bring forward in the already challenging space that is Simple Relations [By the way, I must say, both of you were blessed with some fantastic genes..].

How the hell are we going to be able to keep our darwinian drive to procreate going if we place such intense sanctions on interaction within the most benign of spaces?

We have way more significant issues around this increasing small world than the advisement of closing off some of the few avenues available to interact with anyone, let alone the off chance of inadvertently creating your own ‘Meet/Cute’ story.

Like other 45 year olds, I have added to the Collective war story treasure trove of what make humans unique. Our experiences, no…




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