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When Two Fearful Avoidant Exes Reconnect

C K
9 min readDec 10, 2024

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Him: Is it weird that I’m nervous to call you? Let me know when you’re free to chat.

Me: Haha, that’s really funny! I’m tied up for a bit here tonight but if I get freed up I’ll let you know. This is pretty fucking funny actually!

A couple of days, and a phone conversation, later..

Him: I had a dream you were kidnapped in Mexico and I went to save you. I think that’s a little weird.

Me: Was I getting a good ransom for me

Him: Cartel had you. Apparently I was Rambo in a past life cuz I found you in Monterrey. [a place we visited when dating]

Weird dream

Me: You’re Rambo in this life! Did you get me out? [He’s very well built and okay with using his physicality]

Him: I traded some stuff for you like my truck but ya we got you — your brother was helping — also strange.

Me: Scott was the muscle I assume [I misread that he said it was my brother and not his. Either one would be equivalent in my sarcastic response to threat support]

Him: Of course.

Later that same day..

Me: List 10 things you like about me. [I felt this was a good point to do as I had many a significant relationship that were posthumously showing up at this time for what could be…

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C K
C K

Written by C K

Female startup founder. MBTI enthusiast. INTJ. Passion for research and making sense of the world, optimization and supporting others journeys.

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